Conformity Kills
There’s a lot of social pressure in the world right now. So many negative trends have become norms because most of society agrees with them. They then become part of the culture, and, therefore, expectations in society. However, as Christians, we know that not every norm or social standard is aligned with Jesus’ will. When we adopt negative trends because we are afraid of what people think of us, it’s called conformity. Though it may seem ok because “everyone else is doing it,” there can be serious consequences.
Conformity kills common sense. Because you are focused on trying to please people rather than please God, your judgment is skewed. Your actions are based on emotion, and you engage in things that you wouldn’t do otherwise, so you can fit in with everyone else.
Conformity kills connectivity. Our relationship with God should be our priority because He is our Heavenly Father, Savior, Protector, Guide, and Friend. When we conform to culture, we lose sight of who God is to us and the good things He can accomplish through us in the lives of others. However, when we remain close to God and let Him lead us, He will provide us with the love, peace and joy that we need, and also show us how to have a positive impact on others, through our actions, character, and lifestyle. When we live a life that honors God, we naturally stand out because we are letting Him shine and act through us.
So, although you may feel insecure because you are different from your peers or are being persecuted because you stand out from everyone else, remain rooted in God and don’t conform to this world. Don’t let the pressure get to you. Remain close to God and allow Jesus to change your desire to conform. When you do, He will direct your focus to what really matters: life lived in partnership with Him.
Verses: Romans 12:2 NIV, 2 Corinthians 5:20 NASB
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – His good, pleasing and perfect will.” (Romans 12:2 NIV)
“Therefore, we are ambassadors for Christ, as though God were making an appeal through us; we beg you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God.” (2 Corinthians 5:20 NASB)
